How To Heal Romantic Relationships
When I first met my husband, I was living a fast-paced, hustle ‘n grind kind of lifestyle. I went after everything I wanted and usually got it. I loved my life and worked my ass off to build it.
My husband, on the other hand, was famously known as “Party Mike” — hilarious, gregarious, life of the party who relished fireworks, sunsets, and being on the water. His only goal in life was fun and suffered guilt when he couldn’t make the most of every minute.
We had a lot of problems in our relationship. Not so much because we’re “opposites,” but because we were occupying one half of the whole within ourselves.
In every human there lives the embodied potential of “the Masculine” and “the Feminine.” These expressions are not oriented around gender, but around energies.
Masculine energy holds the expression of movement, progress, provision, and structure.
Feminine energy holds the expression of presence, pleasure, devotion, and flow.
The two go together like peanut butter and jelly, enhancing the whole when in balance.
Learning to occupy BOTH of these aspects first from within is foundational to the health of any romantic partnership. Otherwise, we subconsciously look to each other to fill what’s missing within ourselves.
When our individual expression skews heavily to one side or the other, finding ease in a romantic partnership may forever be challenging.
The effects of imbalanced Masculine | Feminine energies are not limited to romantic partnerships. Imbalances drive patterns of professional roadblocks, leadership challenges, declining physical health, parenting difficulties, and a limited capacity to living Life in a way that feels whole.
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